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The Conversation Inside Your Head Before the Hard Talk
Soliloquy is the conversation you have with yourself before a difficult one with someone else. Notice your physical and emotional reactions, examine the story you are already telling yourself, and decide what you want your next contribution to make possible. The goal is not to suppress emotion or avoid conflict, but to create enough space between reaction and response to enter the conversation with greater clarity and intention.
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Aug 318 min read


Analysis: How to Test Your Interpretation in Hard Conversations
Analyses helps you test an interpretation before acting on it. Separate what you directly observed from the story you built around it, consider another plausible explanation, and ask whose perspective, knowledge, power, or experience may be missing. The aim is not endless uncertainty, but better judgment: resisting premature certainty long enough to examine the evidence and enter difficult conversations with a more defensible understanding.
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Aug 315 min read


The Importance of Conflict Avoidance in Promoting Social Engagement and Facilitating Resolution
Introduction Conflict is an unavoidable aspect of human interaction, and acquiring the ability to manage it is a vital life skill. This...
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Aug 4, 20232 min read


Micro Conversations: A Lost Art of Social Engagement, and Their Role in Conflict Resolution
Micro conversations are brief exchanges that happen in different settings, from family breakfasts to greetings between classmates. While...
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Aug 2, 20233 min read


Don't Burn Your Bridges: Why Conflict Resolution Can Save Your Business Relationships
In the business world, relationships matter. Whether it's your employees, clients, or partners, nurturing strong and effective...
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Aug 1, 20233 min read


The Benefits of Fractional Ombuds Services in Managing Workplace Conflicts
In any workplace, conflicts are bound to happen. Disagreements between employees or between employee and management can arise due to a...
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Jul 24, 20233 min read


Is Conflict in the Office Killing Your Team's Creativity?
A team's creativity can be their greatest asset. It is a vital tool for problem solving, innovation, and collaboration. But if conflict...
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Jan 22, 20232 min read


Personal Strategies for Conflict Resolution
You will often be party to a conflict, and learning to navigate it effectively can be key to our success in both professional and...
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Jan 17, 20233 min read


Dialogue - A Guide to Creating a Safe Space and Achieving Understanding
When it comes to communication, dialogue is essential. It’s the process of two or more people engaging in an open and honest discussion....
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Nov 30, 20222 min read


From the Forefront of Constructive Dialogue and Innovative New Media
Although tensions between the so called “western” and “predominantly Muslim” societies has existed in the past and has gone through...
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Nov 28, 20222 min read


Owning Your Role in Conflict: A Pathway to Relational Reconciliation
We all experience conflict, but how we handle it is key. It’s easy to become entrenched in our own narrative and point of view, but if we...
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Nov 27, 20222 min read


Managing Conflict in the Workplace, a far from impossible task.
Conflict is an inevitable part of any workplace. It's natural for people with different personalities and values to have disagreements...
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Nov 26, 20223 min read


Steadfastly transforming thoughts into action
Robert Muggah is a specialist in security and development. He co-founded the Igarapé Institute where he oversees research and technology...
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Nov 24, 20225 min read
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