Field Notes: Matthaei Garden Route
Conversational Conflict Resolution: A Walk in the Park
Use this page to return to the full route at any point during the walk.
The Four Stations
Children’s Garden + Little Nature Library / Bench
• Curiosity • Noticing • Wonder
Begin by slowing down, noticing what is present, and listening before interpreting.
Knot Garden / Perennial Garden
• Patterns • Perspectives • Roots
Look beneath the first story. What patterns, pressures, or needs may be shaping the conflict?
Bonsai & Penjing Garden
• Restraint • Patience • Inner Shaping
Pause before dialogue. Ask what you are carrying into the conversation.
Conservatory Edge
• Shared Space • Different Perspectives • Connection
Bring listening, analyses, and self-awareness into a shared conversation.
Simple Route
Start at the Pavilion / Visitor Center.
Walk to the Children’s Garden and continue to the Little Nature Library / Bench for Listening.
Continue toward the Knot Garden / Perennial Garden for Analyses.
Move to the Bonsai & Penjing Garden for Soliloquy.
Finish near the Conservatory Edge for Dialogue.
Return to the Pavilion / Visitor Center for closing reflections.
The walk is not decoration.
The walk is the method.
